Derby 10k runner pays tribute to Treetops for three generations of care

On Sunday 6 April, Megan Radford showed her appreciation to Treetops for supporting three generations of her family as she joined hundreds of runners in the Derby 10k.

Megan from Derby, raised over £300 for the hospice that cared for her late dad and grandad. Megan had bereavement counselling at the hospice following the death of her dad, Ian, from cancer.

Counselling support

Megan explained more:

“When my dad died it was the most traumatising week of my life. I knew that I would need help to get over the overwhelming shock.

“It was incredibly useful to have a counsellor at Treetops to talk to in-depth, as it is difficult to do so with grieving family or friends that you don’t want to burden.

“Unfortunately, the memories from that time turned into flashbacks that intruded on my day-to-day life. My counsellor helped me deal with these in an effective way, until they had gone. They say you have to grow around grief and my counselling sessions helped me do that so I could return to my life with a new, well-rounded perspective.”

Treetops nurses helped care for dad at home

Ian died of cancer just days before his 65th birthday. Treetops nurses helped care for him at home.

“Dad didn’t want to be in hospital. He wanted to come home and we wanted him home, so that’s what we did.

“In his last few days, we looked after him as a family, 24 hours a day, with regular daytime visits from NHS healthcare teams. In the night, there wasn’t the same support and that’s where the Treetops nurses came in.“Without the nurses, I don’t know how we would’ve managed to look after dad properly. They had the perfect attitude: a friendly bedside manner coupled with a fierce eye for detail. They looked after my dad and were a sympathetic ear to us. When they arrived, it felt like we could breathe a sigh of relief.

“When my dad died, we called the Treetops nurses one last time. At this point, it felt like having old friends come to the house in our hour of need. They helped prepare my dad and made the necessary arrangements, so we didn’t have to. It didn’t feel intrusive; they were very welcome.”

Megan’s late grandad John also came to Treetops in Risley to meet with his oncologist and to take part in a wide range of activities on site. John was passionate about hospice care, as Megan explained:

“My grandma passed away from cancer when my mum and her sisters were young. It was a difficult time for the family. They had to take two buses to see grandma in hospital.

“Grandad could see how much better grandma’s quality of life would’ve been if there had been a local hospice; what a difference it would’ve made to his wife and daughter’s lives.

“When the proposal came to set up a hospice in the local area, Treetops, Grandad was vocal in supporting it so others could benefit from what he would’ve loved for his own family.”

Giving back to the charity that helped so much

Megan signed up to the Derby 10k to “give back to the charity that helped me and my family so much”.“I think dad would be cheering me on at the finish line. He was always proud of his children and our achievements. I always think of him at the big moments in my life, or even the little successes. I can imagine him pulling me in for a hug, giving me a big kiss on “the bonce”, and congratulating me.”